I approach this last letter for the Echo from a contemplative
view. I have found myself looking back over my life, within and
outside of the United Church. I have been part of many
organizations, some of which have declined or died, some of
which are plodding on and some which seem vital and energetic. I
have always been interested in organizations and the systems
that develop within them. In this era of fast-paced change there
are new insights into how organizations might stay healthy
and/or grow or assume a quieter, smaller role.
Until recently an organization (or a person) was considered
to be strong if it was able to withstand the events that
battered and bruised it, that could damage it in some way. It
was considered important to have a strong, rigid outer layer of
protection. We can personally understand the temptation to raise
protective walls and resist change. However, rigidity also means
that while the body can withstand assaults, it cannot easily
adapt or change and the cataclysmic event that breaks through
can result in utter destruction.
In this century, organizations are moving toward
intentionally building resiliency rather than hard-shell
protection. Resilience is the ability to work with adversity in
such a way that one comes through it unharmed or even better for
the experience. Resilience means facing life’s difficulties with
courage and patience – refusing to give up. It is the quality of
character that allows a person or organization to rebound from
misfortune, hardships and traumas.
Resilience is rooted in a tenacity of spirit—a determination
to embrace all that makes life worth living even in the face of
overwhelming odds. When we have a clear sense of identity and
purpose, we are more resilient, because we can hold fast to our
vision of a better future.
Resilient people share several traits including: acceptance
of reality; a deep belief that life is meaningful; and an
uncanny ability to improvise. Much of our resilience comes from
community—from the relationships that allow us to lean on each
other for support when we need it.
Over the past decade that I have worked at Calling Lakes, it
has exhibited many of these qualities of resiliency. It is a
different place than it was 10 years ago – different people,
different facilities, but a deeply understood mission and
vision. Even in this past year, the Calling Lakes staff team has
faced immense individual and family difficulties. People have
adjusted and supported one another and continue to act out of
community relationships every day.
It is obvious that this resiliency is going to be needed
during the coming months and years. However, if the Centre holds
true to its mission and vision AND perhaps discerns adjustments
to the vision as context and needs change, the future can be
amazing!
As for me, I look forward to leaving the responsibilities I
have carried and to pass those along to the Centre’s new
Executive Director, Annette Taylor. There may be other ways that
I can offer myself to the Centre’s future. At this ending time
for me, I offer these words from Wendell Berry, from his book,
Leaving, which speak to me of my life and perhaps, of my
resiliency...
How much delight I’ve known
in navigating down the flow
by stepping stones,
by sounding stones,
by words that are
stepping and sounding stones.
Going down stone by stone,
the song of the water changes,
changing the way I walk
which changes my thought
as I go. Stone to stone
the stream flows. Stone to stone
the walker goes. The words
stand stone still until
the flow moves them, changing
the sound - a new word -
a new place to step or stand.
